the bast thing i can tell you is that you need to go with your instincts about this. if he cant give you a valid excuse for the behavior then he is hiding something. its not about what your friends think but sometimes, they see it differently, and they see what you cant. only take the words of those who can be trusted. some just want you to be hapy with someone who deserves you. much love and the very best of wishes.

jai-jai

You have to do what you want. Your friends might say stuff like that but you cant listen to them but I know there only trying to be a friend and help. But the only one that can make that desicion is you. Talk to him about it. I was in the same situation with my last boyfriend. It is confusing but if your not sure you love him. Or maybe you need a brake and see what you really want and what he wants. You deserve to be treated like your the best and it seems like he aint. Sorry I aint much help. Good luck.

well im 14 and my bf's 16 and if he suggested anything liek that .. even tho i dnt wanna wait til marriage were only at one month and id tell him to f*** off

if your not ready your not ready and if he really loved you he'd understand that.

yoo dont wanna lose him but its apparently him or your virginity

dont let him push you around..would you rather have an arse-ish guy or your own self respect?

All I can say is if you know for sure you
will regret it after (like if you did give in)
then dont do it.
Stand up for yourself. There are more fish
in the sea anyways... If dumps u for that
reason then he isnt worth your time...
:]
<3Cassie

wow......scary.

woah...WHO broke up with you?

WHO am I killing.

sorry I havent called or anything lately, i JUST got ungrounded today.

lol

Thanks for the comment about my pets  Your pets sound cute!

As far as him not picking up when you call...that's just not right. If both people don't try to make a relationship work...it'll never be a success. I relationship NEEDS two people working their hardest. Period.

its all a matter of trust.
likee my bf i only get to
see like once a week.
if there are some serious
signs like him becoming
distant, not looking you
into the face when he
talks to you, lying, then
you should be worried.
and if you are THAT
worried ask him.
because remember hes
as you said, a sweet, nice,
loving guy.

Brittany..
It's ok to like a guy..
Maby hes a good guy....
You deserve an awesome guy
XD

ILY CHICKA!!!

So you're looking for a boyfriend...over the internet...

Oh Jesus is that just asking for unneccesary drama.

I'm sure you're cute and smart and funny enough to hook yourself a live one--someone real to you. Someone yu can really hug and be held by. But, then again, that's just my perspective. I'm not a single guy, and so this somment probablyi s a bit of a letdown. Meanwhile, at least think over my opinon?

Enjoy the hunt!
x0x

ur welcome

n thanx

lol

i just snuck on to see if i had comments..lol

psh, yeah id soooooo tell jeff.

nah, im not gonna tell him..psh im his anyways..those songs would just make it THAT much better

lol

heehee i get to go to school with him this year  :D

 The initiation at our highschool was dumping kids in trash cans... but. High school was a blur for me. Im 19, so I graduated in 2005. I spent nearly all of freshman and senior year drunk. And spent the last two years being tormented by bitchy girls and frantically scrambling to make up for lost credits. The thing to know is that grades and course content ARE important.... what everyone else thinks about you DOESN'T matter, and that the sexy bitchy mean girls will get impregnated and marry jerks so that years from highschool when your a sucess and you see them you will laugh lol. This one girl who used to try and fight me all the time has 2 kids and is like 400 pounds lol and she used to be a stick thin cheerleader. Karma!

Anyways this was longer than I intended it to be but have a good first year!!

f*** THAT sh*t!!!  You should never be ashamed to be smart!  Never try dumbing yourself down to make guys, or anyone else, 'like' you more either.  Not that I think you would, but it can get tempting, believe me I know!

BEING AN INTELLIGENT WOMAN IS NOT A TURN-OFF AND f*** ANYONE THAT SAYS OTHERWISE

I don't know how old you are but, I'm guessing from the way everyone around you is acting that you're in high school.  I know, teenage boys can be really stupid about girls, it's true.  It will get better as you get older but I guess that doesn't really help you right now... (sorry)

Instead of losing their game, change the rules.  Make it yours.  

~sorry for the language...i get really fired up, sorry!~

i hate me too..

i have for a long time now..

but i have realized that there is a difference in hating yourself and hating the people around you and how they treat you..

life is never fair..we are born this way.. we cannot change that.. but we can make our life more tolerable if we accept who we are and tell them to f*** off!

i do hate me sometimes too even today..

but i try to sort out what matters most to me..

living life..the way i want it..

or surviving life.. the way they want me to live it..

dont let them make you miss your life.. your life is passing by you right at this minute..

dont let them win..

you're smarter than that!

Thanks for the comment. I understand that your granmother is grieving, but I think she'll eventually come back to your family, but it will take time.

Best of luck,

.:Kaitlin:.

I am so sorry.

If you ever wanna talk, hit me up.

Sincere apologies,

.:Kaitlin:.

yeah, we gotta see another movie than:D

ugh i wish i didnt have church tomarrow grr

[twirlgirl97]

no . you havent met  jeff..but hes changed soooooooooo much...........like its crazy..he was telling me he liked me cause i was sweet&sexy&mature and cared about my friends more than anything and he said that was so hard to find in a girl..i was like "awwwwwww"

and he was helping me when i was crying last might, and standing up for me to other people..idk..i just htink i still REALLY like him...like alot..

yea things are very very boring lol. no its not me in the pic but it is a kewel pic that why i put it there. i love that sorta stuff... im just listening to music and here on mdd. i should prolly got to bed soon i havent yet and its past 5am haha.

<3 sarah xo 

hang in there things will get better

[sweetliljesusfan1985]

 yea u would have to be fairly stupid, drunk or high to step into a spinning door. its just weird lol. although i cant talk i have dont those sort of stupid things before. but still its pretty funny lol.

<3 Sarah xo

haha did you really break some guys nose!! that would have been SO funny to see lmao. thats something i could see myself doing coz im so clumsy lol.

i know things probably seem hard right now and it is difficult watching your family put all their praise into someone else [your sister] but things will work out. you seem like a wonderful person and sooner or later they have to see that too. everyone is different and i am sure in your own right you have many things that they should be proud of. keep smiling even when things get really hard and you will make it. as long as your proud of yourself for your acomplishments and you love yourself you will be fine in the end. if you have your mind set and you know what you want, stick to your word. you can do anything with your life that you want to.

Cheer up =D Hugs!!

<3 Sarah xo

Ugh! I HATE when my mom does that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She wants me to be the perfect little girl she never was!

ohh..im sorry, that sux

wich CD?

lmao

im sorry, why cant you get on myspace?

lol, yeah it does mean the same thing

lol

XD

woah..this doesnt sound like what it really is lol..omg on my entry with everything on it i have 11340 hits..thats crazy..thats the most hits ive ever had, lol   

thanks..but i sucked on the singing i think..but i liked the chorous..lol